My Personality

 

 

I am complicated and deep thinking.  I can understand and deal with complex issues and people.Julie in Hong Kong, March 2000.


I focus on possibilities and think in terms of values, principles and goals.  I have a strong drive to contribute to the welfare of others and genuinely enjoy helping people. 


I am a good student, an achiever and I dabble with creative projects.  I take my work seriously and enjoy academic activity.  I may exhibit qualities of over-perfectionism and put more into a task than perhaps is justified by the nature of the task. 


I am not a visible leader, but I will quietly exert influence behind the scenes.


Once I make a decision, I work to implement it.


It is hard for others to get to know me.  While having a rich inner life, I am reserved and tend not to share my reactions except to those I trust.  Because of my vulnerability and a tendency to introject, I can be hurt easily by others.  So I prefer to be a private person.

Even people who have known me for years find sides emerging which come as a surprise.   Not that I am inconsistent.  I am very consistent and value integrity.   But I have a convoluted, complex personality which sometimes puzzles even me.


Vivian and Julie, June 1997I like to please others and tend to contribute my own best effort in all situations.   I prefer and enjoy agreeing with others.  I find conflict difficult to handle and destructive to my well being.


I like to write.  I often use language that contains imagery.  I am a master of the metaphor.  Both my verbal and written communications tend to be elegant and clear.


I aim to make complex issues look simple and accessible so that more people can understand them.  My great talent for language usually is directed toward people, describing people, analysing people and writing to communicate with people in a personalised way.  I prefer to write with a particular audience in mind.


My outstanding qualities are my great personal warmth, my enthusiasm, my insight, my depth of concentration, my sensitivity, my originality and my organisational skills.


I have a capacity for dealing with tasks that require solitude and concentration.   However I can also do well when in contact with people, providing the human interaction is not superficial.Julie at Sara's place, December 1996


I enjoy problem-solving and can understand human systems.  I am interested in using human systems creatively.


I prefer to interact with people on a one-to-one basis.  I listen well.  I have strong empathic abilities and can be aware of another's emotions or intents even before that person is conscious of these.


I am concerned with people's feelings and can provide in myself a barometer of the feelings of individuals and groups within an organisation.


At home, I need and want harmony.  I find constant conflict, overt or covert, extremely destructive to my happiness.  My friendship circle is small, deep and long-standing.  I am concerned with the comfort of my home and the well being of those I love.







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